Special Relation
Saturday, February 11, 2012
It's February 11th,it means 3 days before velentine.And now,I just want to share my random thought about relationship.
Let's start with 'what is relationship between boy and girl'?Is it when two people committed to make such a special relationship?Or when boy or girl says "i love you,would you blablabla" and one another agrees of it?Or any the other answer? I think relationship definition above can represent what world says about relationship. I do agree too with above relationship definition.
World's view for relationship definition can be universal,but there are so many reason why people do it.For me,it's the most important one,purpose. I think purpose is the relationship foundation,when two people have the different motivation or purpose to start relationship, it's very hard to makes a good relation. Having same purpose doesn't guarantee all things going well,but its a good thing to start a good relationship.
For I'm His creation, i want to let His purpose happen in me. It sounds cliches,but for me the relationship must be a strong equipment to glorify God. When we have right purpose on our relationship,i'm sure that He will help us to make right relationship too. So, let start our relationship with God,as our foundation.
Okay,back to relationship,beside purpose,the other thing that's so important is communication. Communication is the vital unsure in relationship. Good communication brings good relation,but the bad one brings bad relation.There are many tricks to make a good communication. From those many tricks,i conclude that good communication starts with honesty and understanding. They're two very important things to build good communication.
I'm not the person that can easily praise or convey my feeling to other people. But for me,communication is not just words,but it's action. Sometimes, action speaks much louder than thousand words.But every people has their own style to express love to another,it depends their "love language" (Words of Affirmation,Quality Time,Receiving Gifts,Acts of Service,Physical Touch). It's much better if we know our love language and our partner's.
I think that's all my random thought about relationship. I hope it can be useful for you. One thing, for single,don't worry about your singleness because "God is preparing someone the best for you and you are prepared to be the best for someone" :)
Let's start with 'what is relationship between boy and girl'?Is it when two people committed to make such a special relationship?Or when boy or girl says "i love you,would you blablabla" and one another agrees of it?Or any the other answer? I think relationship definition above can represent what world says about relationship. I do agree too with above relationship definition.
World's view for relationship definition can be universal,but there are so many reason why people do it.For me,it's the most important one,purpose. I think purpose is the relationship foundation,when two people have the different motivation or purpose to start relationship, it's very hard to makes a good relation. Having same purpose doesn't guarantee all things going well,but its a good thing to start a good relationship.
For I'm His creation, i want to let His purpose happen in me. It sounds cliches,but for me the relationship must be a strong equipment to glorify God. When we have right purpose on our relationship,i'm sure that He will help us to make right relationship too. So, let start our relationship with God,as our foundation.
Okay,back to relationship,beside purpose,the other thing that's so important is communication. Communication is the vital unsure in relationship. Good communication brings good relation,but the bad one brings bad relation.There are many tricks to make a good communication. From those many tricks,i conclude that good communication starts with honesty and understanding. They're two very important things to build good communication.
I'm not the person that can easily praise or convey my feeling to other people. But for me,communication is not just words,but it's action. Sometimes, action speaks much louder than thousand words.But every people has their own style to express love to another,it depends their "love language" (Words of Affirmation,Quality Time,Receiving Gifts,Acts of Service,Physical Touch). It's much better if we know our love language and our partner's.
I think that's all my random thought about relationship. I hope it can be useful for you. One thing, for single,don't worry about your singleness because "God is preparing someone the best for you and you are prepared to be the best for someone" :)
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